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How to Build Self Esteem

Development Of Self Esteem - The Way To A Better Life

We all have self-esteem; but due to criticism, social isolation, or social harassments we sometimes lose some of our self-esteem. Due to not having that feeling of self-worth, we are unable to make a proper decision and at a time take a step which may lead us in the wrong direction than expected.

It is very important to know how to build self esteem so that we can have self-confidence and take the first right step towards happiness and an improved life.

The Steps To Enhance Self-Esteem

There are ways as to enhance the self-esteem that we have lost. When we lose our self-esteem then we will feel that we are not going in the proper direction as to lead a happy and peaceful life. This realization that we have lost our self-esteem is the first step towards enhancing it.

That nagging inner voice of yours will help you to determine if you have lost the much-required self-esteem. If you see that your inner voice is mostly critical for you, then you have low self-esteem. On the other hand, if the voice tends to be positive, then you definitely have high self-esteem.

You need to stop the negative inner voice that you have about yourself so that you can have a better self-esteem. The negative thoughts which are reflected by the negative inner voice must be replaced by positive thoughts about you.

Let’s look at an example: You may have applied for a job and may not have been selected for the position. If you think that you have failed, that you will never be able to have a job, these thoughts will lead to having lower self-esteem.

On the other hand, if you think of it in this manner, so what if I have failed this time I will try to work hard the next time and will definitely be able to have a job. Then this type of thinking will lead you to have a higher self-esteem and eventually succeed.

The reason for having low self-esteem must be ascertained by you. You can ask for outside help and they may show you the probable cause, but it is you who have to determine that actual cause. The reasons may be many like the non-fulfillment of needs, negative feedback or negative life events may be probable causes of having a low esteem.

As you are able to find out the reason for having a low self-esteem, you know practically how to build self esteem. The main job that you have to do is to fight those reasons which are leading you to have such a low self-esteem. You must think positively and correctly about yourself and fight those acts which say that you are not actually what you are.

You need to set a goal as to develop high self-esteem. The goal would be to change the negative inner voice to be a positive one which will show you the path towards a better life.

So, follow these steps and have a self-esteem about which you can boast of.  

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